Husband.

I look at my husband and sometimes i get annoyed. I think to myself "it must be nice to sit on your butt while i clean the kitchen." or "must be nice to have clean clothes folded and put up for you." never mind his mid day nap he can take anywhere at anytime.
It is easy to get frustrated. Im the stay at home mom, I do all the cooking, cleaning, laundry, grounding, scheduling and so much more. I'm on the clock 24/7.
He works and does bath time and takes out the trash after i ask him 500 million times. And sometimes he will swept or switch the laundry.
But i am working on reminding myself that really none of this should be annoying me. I have a husband that supports his family financially and more
He is gone alot and when he is home he is lazy. But I have a husband that works 40 plus hrs a week. That is a wonderful thing. He has a job.
When he is home he does help me sometimes. Sometimes i have to ask one times than i care too but he does help sometimes. Even though he worked his labored day job for 8 hrs.
He never makes dinner. Ever. Even when im sick. But hey we have money for groceries and money for the pizza that i ordered while hacking up a lung.
He is a wonderful day. Mostly nothing i can complain there. Besides his short temper with them when they are on their crazy roll but thats ok. He tries as the kids try to rip away his sanity.
This whole blog seems silly. But to me it isnt. To me im writting this to remind myself that the fact that I am not alone in this life i have is a blessing. I have support. I have help and i have exactly what I need.
So Amiee, remeber you are lucky. He is not a complete asshole. He is not lazy. He is not useless. He is just an asshat who works his ass off. Let him nap. Let his sit on that ass and drink his beer.